Certainly, women are sexual beings, just like men. Because of that, women also had or experienced the following: a) have a drive (sexual desire), b) experienced a sexual awakening as a psychic and physical reaction to sexual stimulation, c) can have an orgasm, d) may experience sexual dysfunction. There is still a huge misunderstanding on the community, especially among men, about women's sexuality: 1) he assumes women do not need sexual satisfaction, 2) women are considered only as objects satisfy a man, so must always be ready to serve men, 3) he thought if women capable of pregnancy and childbirth means satisfied sexually.

It arises due to misunderstanding the wrong attitude and behavior of men toward women, especially wives. First, the husband thinks his wife should be always ready to serve, whenever he wants to have sex. Second, if the wife is not willing to have sexual relations because of certain reasons, she considered not doing their duty as wives. This is what you are now experiencing. I am sure your husband does not understand women's sexuality, as I describe above. Because do not understand, like that's the attitude and treatment toward you.

I believe the attitude and behavior will change if her husband understand the sexuality of women. I am sure your husband will not be angry again when it understands that you need some help to your problem can be overcome. I am sure your husband will not force you again.

Do not be forced
If you feel sick each sex, means that there is cause, the cause may be physical or psychological. Sure to know what the cause. Through proper evaluation and examination will be known the pain it causes.

Some physical causes, such reactions do not occur mocus vagina and infection
on the genitals or surrounding areas. May also mocus vaginal sexual arousal does not occur because you are blocked. Another cause of disillusionment among the psychic's husband, sexual dissatified before, and stress. Before the pain is gone, you should not have sexual relations. If circumstances had allowed Teru psychosexual trauma you will experience worse. Today was actually due to the trauma you've experienced it, so afraid of each going to bed, afraid of her husband demanded sex.

There is no way other than doing the following steps: 1) dare to explain to the husband that you are experiencing sexual dysfunction, and should receive treatment, 2) explain to the husband, in this state you should not have sex, 3) ask for your understanding husband that rejection is not means will not fulfill its obligations as a wife, but to talk due to worse, 4) be further consultation to experts. Do not wait any longer. The longer allowed, the worse you will experience. That is, will arise from the sexual life worse for you and your husband.